Self-Discovery to Improve Self-Esteem
This guest post is from Tracy and originally appeared on Commit to Fit.
I was checking over my blog stats yesterday and I noticed that one of the most comment phrases to direct people to my blog is: "you are not as fat as you think you are."
I did a post a few year ago with that exact title about what we often see in the mirror is not necessary how others see us in society. We are often our worst critics.
Caitlin @ the Healthy Tipping Point is paving the way for people, young and old, to not only feel better about themselves, but to help others feel better too with her Operation Beautiful.
For those not familiar with the movement, the idea is that you write an encouraging and positive phrase on a post-it note and leave it a public place for others to read.
To me, the heart of this movement is self-esteem. When you feel better about yourself, your healthy attitude will rub off on others. While there are many factors that affect our self-esteem (family, friends, television, magazines etc.), I do feel that it is something that needs to be fostered inside of us.
What really matters is how you feel about yourself, not what other people think you should feel.
So how do you begin this journey of self-discovery to improve your self-esteem?
Here are a few things that have helped me over the years.
- Reflection. Think about the people, places and things that have influenced your life. Did they positively or negative contribute to the way you feel about yourself? How does that affect your life now? Should it affect your life now?
- Daily Affirmations. Self-talk can go a long way in determining how we feel and what we present to the world. Try this: Choose a phrase to state your intentions for the day like, "I will cherish my body today."
- Journaling. Write down inspiring quotes, exciting events in your life and interesting people you have met. Make sure to look at this book daily.
- Laugh. Have fun. Spend time with people who make you smile. Laughing always makes you feel better, guaranteed.
What are your thoughts on self-esteem?
What tips could you add to list?